“Your Pronunciation is Good”
This morning’s meditation ended with an offering to the Buddha during which we chanted a variety of texts in Pali.1 When we finished, the woman sitting next to me commented, “Your pronunciation is good.”
I have worked hard to learn proper pronunciation of Pali; a task that has not been easy for me. This morning, I know that I found myself tongue tied during sections of the Metta Sutta and there were huge gaps when I did not chant anything because I had either lost my place or had become too overwhelmed by some of the long Pali words. Yet, when I am able to form the proper words, my pronunciation is getting pretty good.
Too often in education, faculty members view our job as pointing out errors for the student to correct. In the process, we can forget what the woman who sat next to me this morning knows all too well—that encouragement is a powerful tool.
Earlier this week, one of my students made a big mistake and I was very tempted to explain to him how he could better handle the situation in the future. Fortunately, I was able to realize that the error was based on a misunderstanding and that it was unlikely to happen again. Had I pointed out his error, I would have embarrassed him, caused him to lose face, and made it difficult to establish a comfortable student/faculty relationship. Building his confidence by pointing out real accomplishments did more to help him succeed in my class this semester than anything I might have attempted to accomplish by pointing out his mistake.
There are times when it is appropriate to correct a student’s error. Yet, if I am going to be the best teacher possible, I need to remember my reaction to the woman who complimented my pronunciation. By building my confidence, I am more willing to continue to take the risks necessary to continue improving. I need to remember that her compliment did more to improve my Pali than had she focused her comment on teaching me to properly say “Byārosanā patighasaññā, nāññamaññassa dukkhamiccheyya.”2
- –Steven L. Berg, PhD
1Pali is an ancient Indian language in which the canonical texts for Theravada Buddhists is written.
2Translation: “Let him not wish any harm to another out of anger or ill-will.”
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